Happy Birthday Happiness

 I return to this completely ignored space to acknowledge my daughter's 21st [what?!?!] birthday.  

Darling you,

I don’t know how to start this birthday letter to you. Turning 21 feels so monumental, so grown up that I’m not sure what I can add.

This past year had one of those experiences that will be a part of you for the rest of your life. You went to Barcelona in September not knowing anyone in your program and a bit iffy with Spanish. You spent nearly four months making wonderful friends, exploring Barcelona and Europe, interning and owning the experience because you would. When we all came to visit you in November it was a joy to have you host us in the city that has become yours.

But even bigger than being abroad (which is big) is watching you navigate life with all its complexities and knowing that you do it right. 

At times better than me. 

Your ability to move past set backs, forgive slights and see beyond barriers continues to inspire. I’d rather stew in bitterness and revenge fantasies. I need to incorporate more WWHD - What Would Harper Do. Maybe get myself a customized necklace?

I’m excited to move from the job of keeping you alive and well mannered to being your raucous cheerleader who just basks in your amazingness. I’ll always be available for advice [when you ask] [I’m working on it] but more often than not you’ll already know what makes sense for you. I’m happy to be your sounding board.

I love you and love being in your life.

Happy Birthday darling you,

Mom